Your Child’s Personality
- By : Jessica Jiayi W
For a family, a baby is a very important part. The child’s mood and physical state are also related to the joys and sorrows of mothers and fathers. Therefore, parents can not neglect the children’s moral cultivation and personality training while carrying out health education for their children. To address some of the child’s personalities, parents need to prevent and correct them in advance.
1. Intimidated and shy
Some children have clearly shown themselves to behave unconvincingly. They act timidly, and usually bow their heads and talk in a whisper. They are cautious about doing things, and are afraid to express their inner real thoughts and opinions on anything and are too shy to hide. For children’s performance like this, parents should not think that this is the performance of a moral child. In fact, it is a form of a serious lack of self-confidence. Childhood will become an important period for the formation of your child’s personality. If you cannot guide your child to change his or her habits, it will certainly affect his or her future. The formation of children’s personality is important to their healthy growth.
2. Frequent temperament
Almost all parents have troubles related to taking care of their child. Some parents have the trouble of raising a little emperor in the family, and they are always demanding. For the child’s character, many parents have to reflect on whether their parents and their families are too jealous of their children. They open their mouths and food is put in, they reach out and ask for what they want. The children’s self-centered and self-respecting thinking leads to frequent temperament. As long as the children are a little unhappy, they will lose their temper. This is also a great danger to the development of the child’s personality. Parents should always pay attention to the children’s moral education, develop independent good habits from childhood, and do not be too jealous of children. Not conducive to the healthy growth of children.
3. Can’t be integrated into the surrounding
There is a class of children who usually perform well at home and talk and laugh with their parents. They are good in all respects. But as long as they are in contact with other children, their shortcomings will come out immediately and they will not know how to communicate with other children and they will not respect them. It is often unpleasant that this is what we often say. Children in this area may have personality problems. Parents must first think about their own way of education. Isn’t they always keeping their children at home and seldom let them come in contact with other people of the same age in neighbors or communities? Children should have their own friends of the same age, learn to live together, learn to communicate, not just family members.
4. Not confident about yourself
For unbelieving children, their lives are monotonous, because they always feel that this is not enough, and that’s not OK. They often look up to those students who are confident in their performance and cast their envious eyes. Children who often say that they can’t, parents should always encourage and praise their children. Even if it is a small improvement, parents should also be sure to enlarge. If they punish the child and yell at the child, the child will be even less confident.