In today’s society, girls are gaining more responsibility and pressure. As a girl, she must not bully others or let others bully her. She also must be independent. As parents, it’s important to find out if your daughter is acting morally at school and outside of your home. Here are some ways to tell.

1. How moral are her friends?

Seeing how her friends treat others can help you find out how your daughter treats others. Although this won’t determine her attitude 100% of the time, the type of friends she has can have an effect on her behavior.

2. Her patience level

Observe your daughter’s patience level. Patience is an important life skill. If your daughter is patient and isn’t short-tempered, know that this will come in handy later in life. If your daughter tends to short-tempered, try to calm down. Get her to focus on relaxing her body, and managing her emotions.

3. She tells you everything

If your daughter tells you everything after she comes home from school, that is a good sign. If she suddenly stops telling you about her day, something might be up.

4. Helps weaker people

Does your daughter help those who are weaker than her? For example, does she help people who are bullied, and cheer them up? If she does, she is a great person! If you are especially worried about your child’s behavior in school, just email her teacher and see if he/she can help.

5. Popularity is nothing to her

If your child is more focused on after-school programs, her classes, and grades rather than popularity, she is on the right track! Being popular is very important to many young girls now, and if your child can avoid that trap, then she will do better in school.

6. Inclusivity

Is your child inclusive? Inclusivity can be like inviting people she doesn’t really know to her birthday party, so sitting with someone who’s lonely at lunch. Inclusivity is important in determining whether she is kind, because it also means she has empathy, and understands how others are feeling.

7. Has lasting friendships

It’s okay for her to take a little more time to make friends. Having a few close friends that stay with you throughout your life is better than having many friends who you don’t keep as long.

8. Independence

Although your child needs some friends to help her along, she also needs to be independent. She shouldn’t depend on her friends 24/7.

9. Respectful to her elders

A polite girl will show respect and politeness to her elders. She should also be very reverent when dealing with children her age.

10. Not to be overly jealous

Of course, well behaved children will also become jealous at least once in their lifetime. But this jealousy should not drive her to do something horrible. If she just moves on, she will soon forget about it.

11. Compliment people

A well behaved girl will often compliment the people around her. When she sees the other girls wearing clothing she likes, she should also compliment the clothing. If someone is extremely talented in art, she should compliment their masterpiece during art class.

12. Parents are kind people

If the mother is not an honest mother, then the daughter will not become a honest young lady under her influence. Whether you don’t believe it or not, the children will really learn to imitate their parents’ behavior, so we must be role models for our children.